BE / DO / HAVE - The Natural Order

I often ask my clients, "What do you want?" and this is an important question. I think it is important to know what you want so you can have direction and focus in your life, however; knowing what you want is not the answer to having it.

Most important, when you consider what you want in your life and what you are willing to do, you must consider first who you are being.

A couple of years back I had a wonderful opportunity to work with a university men's soccer team.  I was the "Team Performance Specialist".  My job was to help the team BE in a champion mindset.  It was great fun working with the young men.  They readily accepted the notion that they were in control of their team's destiny and that they, as champions, would prevail.  I'm please to report that they did in fact win their division.

The natural order requires you to first BE.  If you desired to be a champion in soccer, you must BE the champion in your mind.  That kind of thinking leads to DOing what a champion does which results in HAVEing a championship.

Sheila Wallace, a friend of mine, said to me the other day, "When you know who you are, doing is the result of just showing up as your self."  What a powerful statement that is!  Sheila was saying exactly the same thing - BE / DO / HAVE.

So let me sum it up this way...

If you want to have a loving relationship

First - BE loving

So you will DO loving things and

The Law of Attraction will create what you

Want to HAVE.