If it is possible for another, it is possible for me.,

If it is possible for another, it is possible for me. If one person can do something, other people can learn from that person’s success. Remember Roger Banister and breaking the 4 minute mile?

Behavior results form a tremendous number of processes all working in concert. Consider playing golf. There is the internal dialog (self-talk), the body’s ability to move easily, the body’s strength, energy from nutrition, the ability to recover from a shot that went astray and so on. If you want to play golf exactly like Tiger Woods then you must do EXACTLY what Tiger Woods does. All the way down to what he eats, how he exercises and what he thinks. The more precisely you can recreate all the processes Tiger uses to play golf, the more precisely you will replicate Tiger’s results.

NLP is all about the process of modeling. If there is a particular behavior or attitude you desire, then find someone to model. Break down everything they do into tiny bite size pieces and BE what you observe.

-Lane